When it comes to boudoir its important to know the DO’S and the DONT’S. It makes it easy and less stressful when planning such a vulnerable day! Im gonna jump right in to it!
1- DO trust your Photographer.
I can not stress this enough. I promise you we see vajeens and tatas big and small ALL. THE. TIME. It aint no thang. BUT I totes get it. I got a Brazilian and was sooo embarrassed (mainly about the booty area hahahaha) SO I TOTALLY GET THE FEAR. Just act like you know what you’re doin and fake it til you make it. We pose you girls so you don’t even have to stress.
2- DON’T take advice from your conservative/shy friends
Its totally okay to step out of your comfort zone and get naked for photos of yourself FOR YOU or for your lover. Sometimes the prudes will advise you not to or may think its weird. DON’T LISTEN TO THEM. Your fears will arise and you will start to doubt the whole process. I got myself some prude friends myself, but open minded ones.
3- DO get a spray tan
Despite other photogs advice saying NOT to, I totally disagree. For me, I feel sexier when I’m tan. 1. it evens out my skin tone and 2. it makes me feel skinnier/toned (even though im soooo not). So if you wanna get a spray tan, do your thaaaang girl! Try and do your tan the day before the session for best results! For a spray tan, click HERE for my recommendation.
4- DON’T get a wax the day before
You never know if you’ll get a histamine (is that how you spell it?) reaction. A Brazilian will keep you silly soft for AT LEAST a week… I vote do it the week or 4 days before to prep! You also don’t want to be on day 2+ after shaving. UNLESS shaving ain’t your thing. In that case, OKURRR we can work with that. For a Brazilian click HERE for my recommendation.
5- DO the touch ups
Have you not had your hair done in a while? Maybe get a fresh touch up appointment prior to your Boudoir Sesh. If your Rooty, thats totally fine, its up to your discretion. But if you think it will bother you that your hair is faded and your starting to get Rooty, then make sure your appointment is close to your session!
6- DON’T do your hair and makeup yourself
DO trust us. My team kills it in the hair and makeup game and I hire only the best for your sash! Its included in the session price. So no need on trying to be all glam on your own. We gotchu.
7- DO bring lingerie that fits well
If you bring the lingerie that YOU feel comfortable in, it will show. If you bring lingerie that is too tight or too much for you, it will show. So do you girl. I mean its great to step out of your comfort zone, but we can always removeeeee items of clothing and step out that way. Bless your eyes and/or your lovers eyes with that gorgeous birthday suit! Ps. Fredericks alwayssssss has sales! ;)
8- DON’T bring along an audience
OH EM GEE I can not stress this enough. I promise you, you WILL feel so awk bringing your friends with you. I feel like its human nature to wonder what others are thinking of you. Especially your friends.Its very distracting to you and takes away from your experience. TRUST.
9- DO eat before and drink plenty of water
You don’t want to be starving before your session. I promise. It will totally take your mind off of the session and you’ll get into hangry mode and get frustrated easily. Stay hydrated girlfriend. Eating some small snacks before hand will not bloat you. You will be fineeeeee.
10- DON’T stress
AND FINALLY-- don’t stress. ermagherd. If you stress, it will show in your photos. Please trust me. I have no doubt that 5 minutes into hanging with me you’ll feel comfortable right off the bat. Im VERY transparent and I think that really helps make y’all feel comfortable. Try and have an open mind. Love yourself girlfriend. You are here, you’re hot. You are a grown woman and you gotta love that hot bod your mama gave you!!!
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